Fed up of this happening?

ive never liked anyone whos liked me back. so ive never had a gf. every girl ive liked just hasnt felt the same and every girl thats liked me i just havent felt the same. and its bringing me down now. yesterday i hung out with a friend and her friend who i quite like. shes single and i found we got on quite well but she text me this morning asking me if i 'liked' my friend. argggg! keeps happening, i like a girl but she doesnt feel the same and wants to set me up with someone who likes me who i dont like. its like im stuck in a loop. i cant help it i just dont see my friend in that way and i just didnt see those others girl who liked me in that way, i cant make that attraction magically appear. what do i do?