What do you think? What do I make of all this?

dont think anything of it else you`ll make yourself upset. intensify the love you have for him and that will remind him of who he has at home. Make him see without saying it what he will loose if he lets her get under his skin. Just love him. Forget the woman, the more attention you give her the more attention your man gives her whenever you talk about her, just ignore her and love your man